I am currently amidst studying for my psychology paper tomorrow and needed a break from Sigmund Freud and his friends. So I decided to jot down my thoughts of the day. Before I begin, I would like to thank all those who commented on my previous post. Thank you all! Lots of love for everyone!!! Prior to the impending post, I would like to remind everyone that this is just my personal views and opinions. This is not directed at anyone (especially not my dearest friends) so please don’t be offended. Read it with an open-mind and feel free to bombard me with your much-appreciated comments!

Today’s random thought would be about my disdain for some of the insensitive and superficial toads that I stumbled upon on trevvy. It saddens me to find out the snide remarks that people can make and how selfish they may be in cyberspace. And the worst part is, they do not even realize it! I am utterly disturbed by people who put remarks on their profile saying things like, “Only talk to me if you are good-looking” or “ don’t talk to me if you think you are fat” or even worst still, those desperate request for kisses and spanks! Like what makes you think you are good-looking yourself and what gives you the right to discriminate people just because of their size? For all you know, they may be thinking the same thing about you too.

And about the desperate ‘begging’ for kisses and spanks, I understand that you’d probably want to be featured as the most spanked and most kissed on trevvy. But don’t you think that the prestige should be given to those who deserve it? I mean, if I read your profile and I am intrigued by it, of cause I’ll leave you kisses. But if you didn’t even put in the effort to write a decent docket, why should I even bother?

And one more thing, why the hack do you even bother opening a trevvy account if you aren’t going to put pictures! Afraid of being discovered? Well, it’s a site created for people who are like yourself! So why be afraid! It’s the only channel for you to embrace your true self and even so, you’re still so self-conscious. My advice is, chillax people. Have some confidence in yourself would you?

I have dated a couple of fat/ugly/less desirable people before but the reason why I don’t get involved with them is not because of their appearance but rather, their characters. So if I reject your offer, don’t be offended or judge me. I have my reasons. But seriously, I have issue with fat people. I tend to think that being fat is a choice. You made that choice, live with the consequence. Some may argue that being fat may be due to genetics or having low metabolism. I agree. But knowing that you have such traits, you should make the conscious effort to eat lesser and keep fit to prevent yourself from becoming a blob of fat. If you don’t even have the discipline to do that, why the heck are you still talking to me? Am I not worth the effort?

And one last thing, I hate the labels given to gays stating that they are sex-ed up. But unfortunately, this is to a certain extent true. I have had numerous offers for sex and that highly discomforts me. Do I look like a prostitute to you? I understand that there is a high-level of testosterone hovering over the gay-world but please people, practice some self-control! The whole idea of making love has been tarnished by just a few selfish individuals who cannot control their own sexual craving. Where is the romance? i mean, I agree that at times, a little causal sex can reduce stress and all that but don’t you think sharing such an intimate moment with the one you love is more important? Where is the romance? I’m sorry guys, the only way for you to get into my pants is with a whole load of love, a nice romantic dinner date and tonnes of gifts of romance. MAY BE, then, I’ll consider your offer.

Question. Most gays are gays because they feel rejected by the straight- world for reasons such as their less appealing outwards appearance. So what happens to these people if they feel rejected by the gays? Is there another realm for such innocent souls?